My cats have free acsess to roam all house, except kitchen worktops, during the night they have downstairs to themselves. They are not aloud in our bedroom, as they would not let us to sleep- they keep jumping on my partners toes and scratching my back, or purring really loadly (its even worse that my partner's snoring)
i am too soft to put any rules, and i have to admit i treat my cats like they were my babies i think it's understandable though, i don't have children, so i need to show my affection and love to somebody