Mum had a tough time in labour, and unfortunatly lost one kitten at birth. she showed no interest in the remaining two, not even cleaning them. so i of course kept a very close eye on them. she seemed to settle down with them, feeding. The boy kitten died within an hour, so i took all of them to the vets. On his advice i didnt let mum have the little girl back, she was trying at every chance to bite her. not a bite to take her back, but a bite to hurt. mum will of course be spayed as soon as possible. Thank you for all your advice and help, i will try all the suggestions. and of course please all keep your fingers crossed little Lucy makes it