I'm soo sorry for your terrible time! They are indeed stressful especialy cos we have to make all the decisions for them that affect their livelihood. They cause us so much worry and heartache and pain but at the end of the day they are soooo unbelievably worth it. I am going through the same decision process as whether or not to get my 2 female bunnies spayed cos it seems a shame to risk the op when they are so healthy but will be an even bigger risk if i wait longer! Wished I'd had them done when I first got them and before I got sooo attached! Hope things go better for you now and keep us posted as to what happens with Daisy!