thanks

Well my oh went out to a little cornered off area full of weeds etc, i mean its covered in plants and weeds and people have started dumping stuff over there, wood, cement etc
Our other cat followed and went into a bush part and starting coughing like he was trying to throw up like he was trying to give the other cat some food

I rung my friend who is a veterinary nurse and she agrees that he was probably doing it to try and give the other cat some food

We took sheers over there and tried cutting it down but we couldnt see him. I hope he comes back now as its dark and quiet outside