thank you all. we had a much better day already yesterday where they were actually looking like friends at some points and they only had one scuffle when benson leaped out of the door and landed on her in the garden. it looked like it scared them equally.

they are both such nice dogs i think they arent quite sure who is going to be dominant as when they bark at each other they both back off, ignore each other for a while and then play. i think my parnter is starting to be more convinced that it will be good. but is cautious because of his parents stories.