How long ago was he neutered? It could be that if it was fairly recently he may still have some hormones playing havoc and I think it may well be worth a visit to your vet to check that a) the neutering was done properly and b) there is nothing physical wrong with him. Once you rule those out try to pin down when this behaviour started - can you remember when it first happened and if anything triggered it? Does he have enough toys and/or a decent sized cat post to stimulate him - as it sounds like he could be a bit frustrated/bored and by doing what he is doing he certainly is getting your attention!

It may well be that your cat does prefer male company - some do! As already suggested, and bearing in mind he could be a bit bored/lonely, it may be an idea to consider a companion for him - a female may be best.

I would suggest also that you contact his breeder if you can and have a chat with them.

Also may be worth investing in a few Feliway diffusers - may help him feel calmer.

I do hope you sort things out as nine times out of ten Raggies are wonderful - and if they behave in such a way you describe there is usually a reason behind it.

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