Last year my husband and i decided to have another baby and this year i gave birth to a beautiful baby girl Layla who is now 8 months old. Whilst talking about the possibility of having another baby we agreed to certain things so that our family would be secure.

Amoung these descisions it was agreed that i would be going back to uni in september 2008 (since i want a career) when my son starts proper school full time and a friend of ours would have my little girl. Everything in order or so i thought! Suddenly issues arose around november last year when my grandfather past which threatened the promises made but once reminded they very quickly went away.
However we are again at that time of year where he is starting to question it all again and what im wondering is for the sake of my family do i make him stick to his side of the bargain as i have stuck to mine or do i let him get on with it?

I have to add the descisions he is making affect us all and are very selfish as they only benefit him! where as the alternative benefits everyone! Kind of not the subjects you usually deal with but thought maybe someone might be able to help!