I mean - any kind of human presens within her sight; someone calm and very quiet (like me lol, but I am too far I guess) otherwise she'll became timid to you againl. Its far too long period to leave her absolutely alone. Someone retired? single? Does Lily likes toys, is she playing sometimes?

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