Okay thanks Stephny691 ,
and to RachyBobs, I understand where you are coming from , and by headstrong I mean she takes no notice of where I want to go , and how fast I want to go, so everything really !
At the riding school, I ride a different horse every week, but recently I have been put on the same one, as the others are all out on loan, which is good, and I seem to be getting on with her.
So with the 3year old, if I groom her now, and lead her now, when I *possibly* ride her, you think that might make a difference? With the pony I rode last year, I hadnt seen her before , and was expected to ride her just like that by her owner & my family. They understand now (i think) that it doesnt work like that, so maybe as the trust was missing, thats why it didnt work out.
Thankyou, it has been good to hear your thoughts, & the trust issue makes alot of sence now !
