he is nearly 19 and behaving like a 5yr old, i had the 'you have never wanted me' scene last night' he has serious issues and is an alcaholic (of course he swears he doesnt drink), he can be aggressive with it and faces up to me all the time, when he is sober he is such a lovely kid, what do you do when you tell your sone to move out and he point blank says no, he stands feet above me.