Ignore her.. for one, you weren't having a conversation with her! and two, what you do with your 'much loved' cats is nothing to do with her!!
some people jump in with both feet without finding out the facts first...
However.. if you are going to desex them, you
can get the boys done quite early..
my boy was done at 15 weeks with no ill effect.. some vets like to wait longer though..
girls can be done at around 17 weeks.. good luck
