I don't know if Aj and Vapor have other issues but whatever the case, imo Aj's "ornament" reply was not warranted and he is a big boy and can take care of himself,as i said i have only just seen this thread and in reguards to Vapor-he/she was seeking genuine advice and support and as previously said if this cannot be offered in a way that Vapor and Lily find a happy medium at least then don't comment-after all it's all about the kitten..isn't it?
