Thanks for the serious comment Clare. Lily actually doesn't get along with other animals. I had a dog for a while which she was very aggressive towards (she would stalk it through the house and if he got close to her she would attack it and hiss) and I have had stray neighbor cats wander through the backyard that have caused her to attack the door to my patio. I wish that were the solution, but I think her being aggressive would be worse. I don't know if this is ordinary behavior for a kitten, my other one was very sick and although I thought she was pretty normal, I realize now she was lethargic. My other cat was very mellow her whole life and never caused any issue. I've even had puppies that were less of a problem. I wouldn't consider giving her up (it may not sound very bad, but she does all of these things on a literally hourly basis) and I'm not sure what I should do to help her get over it. I was simply wondering if someone had similar issues and had success with something I haven't thought of.