What about the suggestion of a play mate,this will focus her attention on something else,and keep her occupied.I have had cats for 14 years and never had or felt the need to train any kitten,if a playmate is not an option maybe you should consider rehoming her to someone understanding of a kittens/cats behaviour.What you decribed sounds like a normal healthy kitten to me.If you have pets in your home you have to accept certain messes and scratches in your curtains/sofas its all part and parcel.