thanks everyone for the advice... he still hasnt arrived yet but will definatly be here for friday as that is when they have to move out, mums been out n got a litter tray n bit n bobs its ten year since she had a cat to be honest she is more of a dog person but my cousin said if my mum didnt want him they would take him to a rescue n mum dint want that,,,,, before ya know it he will be her best pal and she will spoil him,,,,,,, i cant help but think wht my dog cassie will think to him lol