Its brilliant that there are sites like this where people can ask for advice Claire - if you dont ask you dont get to know owt - we all have to learn from somewhere
I'm sure daycare4dogs asked for help cos she wants to get it right - we hear so much about people with Rotts who dont give a monkeys and I'm sure she's just a responsible owner who wants to make a good job of raising her puppy.
Daycare4dogs where did your puppy come from?? Was it a reputable breeder - I'm only asking cos if it was then I'm sure they'd really like to help you raise a grounded, happy, bubba.