Hi there

I am new to these boards but just wondered if I could get some advice. We have brought a kitten from a registered breeder. However the day we brought him home he started sneezing and coughing. The next day was no better if anything worse so we took him to the vets and the said it was either a bad case of cat flu of could be FIP (hope thats right). So he needed to be tested. He hasn't eaten (even though I have offered him everything irresitable to cats), urinated or gone for a number two. I phoned the breeder and she said to bring him back and she will cover his vet bills.
My only thing is I feel bad about taking him back but I also don't want I poorly cat or one which may pass away as it has taken me almost three years to have another cat after I lost my siamese. I was devasted when he died.
Does anyone else think I am awful for doing this?
Advice please!