It's weird because ive been keeping one eye out for a first pony for my tall 12 yr old. im thing 13 something is too small, but i cant find anything suitable.

Its a very expensive hobby and im amazed as you are struggling you can keep one horse going, let alone 2. Are things really that bad? if so i know this sounds awful but why arnt you selling both if you are struggling, hard as it is, but if your girl isnt that interested she isnt going to miss riding much. What sort of pony , size, colour , breed is it? and where are you?